Organiser's guide
How long before an event should you send the invitations?
Written by Carton Blanc (MAKEO SAS) · Updated
In short
- For a professional evening or a party of more than thirty people, the first announcement goes out six weeks before the date.
- The detailed invitation goes out four weeks before, with the programme, the venue and the registration link.
- The reminder goes out two weeks before and is sent only to guests who have not replied.
- The final reminder goes out the day before, with the address, the time and a link to add the date to a calendar.
- A wedding or an event with distant guests is announced several months ahead; an afterwork needs only four weeks.
The short answer: six, four, two weeks, then the day before
The calendar Carton Blanc proposes by default rests on five mailings dated relative to the event: D-42, D-28, D-14, D-1 and D+2. It fits an event on a list for a professional or friendly audience, meaning people whose diaries fill several weeks in advance.
Each email lands on the same weekday as the event. An event on a Thursday is announced on a Thursday, invited on a Thursday and reminded on a Thursday: guests pick up the rhythm, and you avoid weekend mailings, which are read less.
Why six weeks for the first announcement
An announcement six weeks out asks nothing of the guest except to note the date. It reserves the diary before other requests arrive and gives you room to correct course: if registrations come slowly, you have time to remind without urgency.
The announcement holds the date, the venue, the theme and the flyer. It does not yet hold the full programme: that waits for the D-28 invitation, which can detail it without contradicting the announcement.
The invitation at four weeks: when people decide
Registrations arrive mostly in the days after the detailed invitation. It is therefore the email that matters most, and the only one you must write with care: an explicit subject line, the date in the first line, one registration link.
If you miss that window, the D-14 reminder recovers part of it, but it will never replace a well-placed invitation. A guest who learns of an event two weeks out first checks whether they are free, then decides, and many never reply.
The reminder at two weeks: only to those who have not replied
The D-14 reminder goes only to guests who have not yet registered. Sent to everyone, it irritates those who already replied and makes them doubt their registration was recorded.
The reminder text fits in three lines: the date, how many places remain and the link. If the room is almost full, say so: a real number weighs more than an adjective.
Cases that depart from the calendar
The default calendar is adjusted to the nature of the event. These are the most common departures, each with its reason.
- Wedding or event involving travel: announce several months ahead, to leave time to book transport and accommodation.
- Year-end gala: announce earlier than usual, because November and December diaries are full by September.
- Afterwork or local meeting: the invitation at four weeks is enough, with the reminder at two weeks and the reminder the day before.
- Tasting with very limited capacity: invitation a little later, reminder soon after, so places are not held by lukewarm registrants.
- Recurring event: always keep the same intervals; the regularity of the reminder matters more than its exact day.
The reminder the day before and the follow-up message
The D-1 reminder goes only to registered guests. It gives the address, the arrival time and a link to add the date to a calendar. It reduces forgetting, which accounts for most unannounced absences.
Two days after the event, a message thanks those who came and offers absentees a catch-up date. It is prepared as a draft before the event, with a text for each group.
A checklist before sending
Before each mailing, go through these points; they avoid last-minute corrections.
- The date, time and address are in the subject line or the first line.
- The registration link is a single link and works on a phone.
- The flyer opens without a download and its text is readable at small size.
- The venue capacity is entered, so the waiting list opens at the right moment.
- The test email received at your own address landed in the main inbox, not in spam.
Frequently asked questions
- Is it too early to invite several months ahead?
- For a wedding or an event that involves travel, no. For a local evening, an announcement that early is forgotten: six weeks are enough.
- Can I send invitations less than two weeks before?
- Yes, for an afterwork or a last-minute event. Plan a single invitation and the reminder the day before.
- Can I change the email dates in Carton Blanc?
- Yes. Drafts are created with the default calendar and you adjust the sending date of each before it goes out.
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Other occasions
- Managing wedding guests: replies, reminders and check-in
- Managing a gala: guests, waiting list and a welcome without queues
- Organising an afterwork: registrations counted, a bar of the right size
- Guest list software
- Online RSVP
- Event registration
- Corporate party
- Christmas and year-end parties
- Awards ceremony